Friday, April 17, 2015

The Basics for Serenity and Recovery

Basics

The basics are what you do every day in order to stay sober, centered and balanced. They are the tools you rely on to keep sharp while you are on your spiritual journey. These are the very basic action-based requirements for developing positive change and spiritual fitness. You can check your amount of willingness to change by measuring whether or not you are accomplishing the basics.
  1. Prayer and meditation; morning and night; see Morning/Evening Prayer and Meditation post 
  2. Contact someone within your 12-step support network.
  3. Read two pages of 12-step literature that supports your change. For example: daily readings, daily reflections, 12-step texts.
  4. Attend a 12-step support group meeting every week or the amount of times needed.
  5. Walk or exercise 5 to 10 minutes per day.
  6.  Affirmations and gratitude.


Wednesday, April 15, 2015

Morning/Evening Prayer and Meditation

Prayer and Meditation: This can be accomplished in a short period of time; five or ten minutes. If you want to go longer than you can, but at least practice 5 or ten minutes in the morning and at night when you are going to sleep. There are no special prayers, religions, or meditations that you need to follow, unless you want to. Your prayer can be to any higher power. You can do it any way you want as long as you include these adapted 12-step principles and considerations in your practice. Thank you, and happy prayer and meditation...
      Morning: 5-10 minutes of prayer and meditation is enough.
-If you have any special prayer this is a good time to say them
-Consider your plans for the day
-Ask your higher power to direct your thinking
-Ask your higher power to divorce you from self-pity, dishonesty and self-seeking motives; your thought process will be on a much higher plane when our thinking is cleared of wrong motives.
-Ask for intuitive thoughts and inspiration when you are facing indecision or confusion about what to  do
-Ask to be helpful to others
-Begin meditation by entering a period of silence. Allow yourself to receive guidance and instruction  during this time.
Night: 5-10 minutes of prayer and meditation is enough.
-Review your day
-Were you resentful, dishonest, selfish or afraid?
-Do you owe an apology to someone?
-Have you kept something to yourself that needs to be discussed with another person?
-Were you kind and loving toward all?
-What could I have done better?
-Was I thinking of myself most of the time, or was I thinking of what I could do for others?
-Was I worrying about the future?
-Was I being negative?
-Ask your higher power for the strength to correct these measures
      -Begin meditation by entering a period of silence. Allow yourself to receive guidance and instruction during this time.